WISE Man Says.. ( I ALSO SAY)
ONly Fools RUsh In
Everything in life seems to be already pre-determined or decided. I mean I know the FUTure is in our hands kind of theory but... When there is only so much that you can do do make one thing happen, I guess you would too, resign to the so called fate and just wait.
And seriously when you only have limited knowledge of certain things, rushing in is plain stupidity. The first time I rushed in I would call it ignorance. To repeat the same mistake, it is nothing but plain stupidity.
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Some people are constantly aware of their own behaviour. They constantly reflect to check that they are able to account for their actions and thoughts for the day.
Some people dun think much. They just live each day as it is. Only start to think when they are being put in the situation or when the issue is so great that it is already a problem starring at them.
Some people welcome criticism and opinions of those who sincerely wish them well though it is natural to build up a wall of defence to all these words that are too hard for one's ego at the beginning.
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The real problem sets in when... You dun think much, dun reflect and simply do not accept any form of criticism from anyone. You only hear the good things and only want to hear the good things. How good a person are you? You think you are good. And you shut off each time someone tells you that you should change a certain way of doing things. You should change certain attitude.
What is the worst case?
Is when people all around gave up. They do not say anymore because it will only bring themselves disfavour and you are never willing to change. They just smile it off and lead a supercificial life and attitude with you. You think everyone is ok. You think you are ok.
BUT im very sure. Deep inside, late at night, when you are lying on ya bed, that loneliness must be too much to bear. Dun you have lots of friends to hang out with? But do you really have someone that cares for you inside? Why is it that you still feel so alone?
When you meet people and do things only because you have an agenda, or you put ya self above them ALL the time, Dun expect that you get sincerity from anyone because you didnt give and no one would do that in return.
When you are always painting a nice and loud picture about who you are, when deep down inside you know you are not, how do you expect people to ever accept you for who you are when you yourself never give them a chance and most important of all, you never accepted yourself for who you are.
The only way to receive love is to give love.
The only way to receive sincerity is to be sincere.
One life. Live IT.
Open up.
Be responsible.
Be sincere.
At the very least, start reflecting on ya own thoughts and actions. People these days dun share criticisim anymore. They dun need you to progress, they see that you are bad in a certain way, they simply drop you out of their lives. They have nothing to lose.
Good friends share with you on what they think you should change.
People who love and care about you want you to improve and grow. Listen to them at least.
When no one cares, at least, make sure you care about yourself.
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