STRENGTH

True strength comes from within. No one can ever provide that effective and real strength other than oneself. Never expect to have any sort of emotional dependence on anyone in this world, if you are not even able to hold yourself up, and bring yourself through the obstacles in life, No ONE can help you.

People can be there to guide you and to show you the way. To really move yourself thru the haze, you have to get ya ass moving. And b4 you can move ya ass, you need to start feeding ya brain. Stop committing the fundamental attribution error by attributing everything, the way things are and the reason why things happen to someone else. Making yourself a victim, doesnt help and most importantly, it is meaningless.

Know what is real and what is not. Move on. The process is tedious, demoralising but you just have to keep moving. And only when you finally get thru the dark, light will greet. Once you find yourself back, you will have the strength to be with yourself again, you listen to yourself and you act with yourself in mind. At the end of the day, there is only so much that anyone else can advice you or think and tell you what is best for you. Without yourself knowing and loving yourself, you will never know what is the best for yourself and cos you dunno, you cant have.

Everything comes with a pros and cons. How do we know what we really want? Who will give us directions? Are those directions real? True? sincere?

Go back to the self, the inner self and only then will the true happiness be.